I ran across this awhile back and meant to share it earlier. I didn't write it. The text was from one of Wayne's last public appearances before he died of cancer. He gave this speech while attending a dinner benefiting a land purchase for a Boy Scout Reservation called John Wayne Outpost Camp.
At this dinner, Wayne recited the Scout Law. Then he did something unusual. He said the twelve points of the Scout Law are "nice words". "Trouble is" he continued, "we learn them so young we sometimes don't get all the understanding that goes with them. I take care of that in my family. As each boy reaches Scout age, I make sure he learns the Scout Law. Then I break it down for him, with a few things I have picked up in more than half a century since I learned it."
I thought it odd that a Boy Scout site that I pulled a portion of John Wayne's speech from, there was a disclaimer of sorts. It read, "This Minute is meant for Boy Scouts. Decide for yourself if it is appropriate for your younger scouts or not." I ask you, what within the following words spoken might be deemed as 'inappropriate'?
Trustworthy: The badge of honesty. Having it lets you look any man in the eye. Lacking it he won't look back. Keep this one at the top of your list.
Loyal: The very word is life itself, for without loyalty we have no love of person or country.
Helpful: Part sharing, part caring. By helping each other, we help ourselves, not to mention mankind. Be always full of help:the dying man's last words.
Friendly: Brotherhood is part of that word. You can take it in a lot of directions - an go - but make sure and start with brotherhood.
Courteous: Allow each person his human dignity which means a lot more than saying, "yes ma'am" and "thank you sir". It reflects an attitude that later in life you wish you had honored more, earlier in life. Save yourself that problem. Do it now.
Kind: This one word would stop wars and erase hatreds. But it's like your bicycle, it just no good unless you get out and use it.
Obedient: Starts at home. Practice it with your family. Enlarge it in your friends. Share it with humanity.
Cheerful: Anyone can put on a happy face when the going is good. The secret is to wear it as a mask for your problems. It might surprise you how many others do the same thing.
Thrifty: Means a lot more than putting pennies away, and it is the opposite of cheap. Common sense covers it just about as well as anything.
Brave: You don't have to fight to be brave. Millions of good, fine, decent folks show more bravery than heavyweight champs just by getting out of bed every morning, going out to do a good day's work and living the best life they know how against the law of odds.
Clean: Soap and water help a lot on the outside. But it is the inside that counts and don't ever forget it.